The world’s a volatile place and as a woman and a lesbian, like so many of us in the LGBT+ Community, we often feel the need to work harder to be seen, heard, and respected. My first three years in the public relations field were quite eye-opening. My colleagues at SCG have been consistently supportive and encouraging, and I’ve had terrific clients, but as often is the case, it’s not always easy seeing myself in my colleagues because I have a unique experience as being one of only two queer people that work at the agency.  

This said, the challenges I’ve faced have actually become my superpower, guiding me through the ups and downs of being a working professional. And my obstacles are not unique, quite frankly a lot of people in the queer community face these hardships, but I learn, and I grow from these obstacles, day after day. I’ve learned that being yourself is a strength not just for myself personally but professionally to be able to thrive in an environment where I help a wide variety clients.

If you’re a queer person struggling to come to terms with how to make yourself be seen or “fit in” to professional spaces, here are some tips that have benefitted me.  

1.       Don’t feel the need to make yourself small or hide who you are. Be yourself, be queer. That’s unique and there is space for you to be yourself.

2.       Join organizations that encourage you to network with other people in the LGBT+ Community. For example, I’m a proud member of the New York City chapter of Outprofessionals. During meetings, I’ve made contacts with people in many different industries, including software development, travel and hospitality, advertising, and public relations. And they all are part of our wonderful queer community.

3.       Be an advocate for our community. More than ever, we need to stick together and amplify our voices. The business arena is among these.   

Overall, just know you’re not alone and there’s room for you in any professional space you wish to enter.